College is a wonderful time to be selfish. You are independent, perhaps for the first time. You have no real family obligations. You walk into a dining hall, so you neither grocery shop nor cook. You are surrounded by a welcoming community that wants you to grow and excel. You are having fun with friends on the playing field or on a theater stage. The campus is an idyllic and beautiful cocoon. And your efforts are focused on learning, on achieving in the classroom, and on becoming a sophisticated thinker.
Given this self-centered culture, it can be very difficult to worry about others outside the campus. I’ll confess I never did. It was enough for me to study, make friends, sing a cappella, and go to football games. I’m not really proud of that record, in defiance of a family tradition of public service, but it made me happy.
But as my time in college went on, I became aware that this was not just shallow, it was stifling educationally. Let me focus on the latter, as being shallow can be appealing and fighting it mostly filled with guilt. I’d rather argue that if a student remains focused on the campus and its intellectual cocoon, he or she is missing the chance to learn, to connect ideas with reality, and to understand people whose world view is radically different.
So I don’t think it’s enough to say that community service—one very worthwhile way to get off campus—is virtuous. Of course it is. Helping others, giving of yourself, transferring your excess of riches (mostly talent and caring, at this point in life) to those without is morally right. Without charity and public service, we are savages.
As an educator, I should point out that community service is deeply educational, and in ways you can neither anticipate nor fully appreciate as you do it. Tutoring a child gives you a view into lives alien to yours. Working at a soup kitchen teaches you how non profits function and how communities sometimes do not. Cleaning a local wetland shows you the intricate delicacy of an ecosystem. And restoring an old church informs your thinking on religion and architecture.
I really think it’s OK to be self-centered in college. Life afterwards will not be so indulgent. But remember that any effort you make to walk off campus and help others will not just leave you feeling better as a human, but it will teach you countless lessons—and you don’t have to worry about grading!
